Don’t stress bro, plenty of more fish in the sea. In my experience, the one who cancelled should bear the burden of being the one to reschedule. If they don’t take it upon themselves to do so, it’s because they’re not a considerate person (time to move on), or they’re not interested enough (also time to move on).
Regardless of the scope of emotions, try to respond with restraint. The standard answer in such cases is: “Hi, I’m sorry to hear that, but that’s okay. I hope you will be fine.”. But if a guy cancels plans last minute without a good reason, it is worth talking about your feelings, and try not to overreact.
Maybe something came up and he realized he couldn’t do it and it would be unfair to you. You just never really know what others are going through. In order to grow as people we have to push ourselves. Sometimes we push too far and have to take a step back before trying again. You got up caught in that, and I’m sorry.
A guy who I consider as a great friend keeps canceling dates and today was the last straw. We were supposed to go on a date yesterday and he cancelled, understandably so, because he went to a party and stayed up late. He promised me that we'd see each other today and spend the day out. I asked him if he was sure maybe 2 times and he said yes.
Not cool lol. If you agree that it is a good idea to postpone plans when either of you are in a bad mood, then of course you should cancel next time you feel blah. However, if you are doing it only as to "one up" her, then it is not a good idea. You are just trying to get back at her if you do that and that is not good for the relationship.
Could be a few thing. 1- he is worried you or him might catch feelings. 2- to see if you could still in be interested / willing to stay on his "hook" so to speak 3. Cause he asks you as a backup in case his original plans fall through. Seriously though, just block him and move on without him in your life.
When I try to bring it up she'll get mad that I'm trying to cancel on her even though it was just a heat of the moment mistake. I've tried just saying "we'll have to see because if I might have plans already" a few times but she'll say something like "it might be the only chance we'll get to spend together for 2 weeks" and I'll give in.
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